Nipples are an important, and unfortunately often overlooked, area of arousal during sex for both genders. Including nipple play during sex can result in a more intense orgasm that involves sensations all over the body, instead of just the genital area. Some people are even able to achieve orgasm from nipple play alone. Nipple sensitivity differs from person to person and can be affected by medication, hormonal birth control, menstrual cycles, pregnancy, and premenopausal changes.
During sexual arousal, the nipples become erect, even without direct stimulation, due to a release of oxytocin in the body. Oxytocin is a feel good hormone, sometimes referred to as the ‘love hormone,’ and is released continuously during stimulation. By intensifying this sensation with introducing nipple play into sex session, the already natural hormone release can become intensified.
The nipple is where all of the nerves of the breast are concentrated. The nipple and the surrounding area has a complex sensory system that responds to many different types of stimulation. Before introducing nipple play, talk to your partner about your intentions and maintain a clear line of communication throughout the process, giving feedback on what’s working or many not be working for you. This will also help establish a sense of relaxation, something that is necessary to feel the full benefits of nipple play. Some of the following techniques can also be explored during masturbation, though some people report only being able to enjoy nipple play when a partner does it to them. Have patience — sometimes nipple stimulation can take a little longer than stimulation of genitals.
Blowing can be a slow and gentle way to begin, easing into play. Though it maybe a little ticklish as first, using a rhythmic method with help you acclimate to this new sensation. Kissing in the form of rubbing lips or using your fingertips to gently stimulate the nipple area can increase this sensation. Progress to using your tongue and mouth to lick, suck, and gently bite the nipple. Make sure to keep checking in with your partner to see that they are enjoying the exploration and as the receiver, keep communicating how it feels.
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There are a couple different ways to progress sensation. If your partner is looking for a stronger, pinching or squeezing sensation then try using clothes pins or nipple clamps. It they are enjoying the sucking sensation then many nipple suckers might be fun to try. If your partner is enjoying the rhythmic tickling or licking, think about introducing a vibrator into the mix. Adding new sensation like rope or feathers can also be fun.
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Nipple are also hugely sensitive to hot and cold, so temperature play can be fun to explore. Simple items like ice cubes or cooled down temperature retaining toys like the stainless steel Njoy series, work perfectly. Hot wax can be fun if heat is more of your thing. Even the introduction of a blindfold can make sensations feel even more heightened for you partner.
