Ever wondered where the clitoris is? This pleasure center of the vagina / vulva is larger than you might think.
In this sex-ed video, learn about clitoris anatomy and how to find the clitoris. Everyone's genitalia is different, so your clitoris may not be very exposed.I have been looking for a new sex toy to get my girlfriend. We are both new to sex toys and I am wondering what you would recommend. I purchased a vibrating cock ring a few months ago for us to incorporate into our sexual play, she is a huge fan, I have liked it, but I honestly don't like the feeling of something unnatural on me during sex. Would love your recommendation on something to change things up a little!
-Anonymous
Thanks for your question! It’s great to hear that you’re open to exploring toys with your girlfriend and using them to enhance your sex life. Too often, sex toys can be mistaken as competition in the bedroom and that simply isn’t the case.
I do understand your dislike of the feeling of a cock ring - they’re not for everyone. I am curious about the size and type of cock ring you were using. Maybe the restrictive feeling could be alleviated with a slightly large size or maybe a ring that sits underneath the testicles and the shaft like the We-vibe Verge?
Cock rings aside, there are still many ways you can enjoy sex toys and further explore the vibration that your girlfriend liked. If your girlfriend has a vagina, there are wearable vibrators that she can wear during sex instead of you. The Dame Eva sits snug between the folds of the labia to stimulate the clit.. The We-vibe Sync is worn vaginally, allowing for penetration as well as internal and external stimulation.
Another great idea would be to incorporate some kind of bullet toy you both could share. Bullets are typically known for clit stimulation however vibrations to the perineum (the space between the testicles and the anus), the testicles and the penis can feel amazing also. The Dame Fin is a personal favorite of mine. With it’s optional tether, the Fin stays easily attached to your hand, allowing you to explore your partner’s body with ease. The We-vibe tango is another great bullet packed with power and is whisper quiet. If you’re wanting to get even more adventurous, the Pico Bong transformer is a diverse toy that can be bent, twisted, or posed into any position.
I hope that helps! Keep exploring and having fun!