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So I just started seeing a new guy and he told me he has a foot fetish. I’m not really sure how to please him considering I’ve never done feet stuff and I don’t LOVE feet. But I want to try it at least once, what should I do?

Madeline

 

Hi Madeline! Thanks for the question.

I’m glad to see that you’re open to exploring new things with your new partner.

Foot fetish (or podophilla) is actually more common than you would think. It’s the most common fetish of a traditionally non sexual body part or object. There are many theories about why feet became such a popular fetish yet they all gravitate around the common theme of sexualizing feet being socially taboo.

There is a large spectrum within the realm of foot fetishes. Some people with true foot fetishes cannot become aroused without being totally focused on their partner’s feet, while some others like to incorporate feet into other erotic play. The way that foot fetishes translate also vary. Some people like foot worship where they lick, suck, massage, or paint the toes of their partner’s feet. Others enjoy direct genital stimulation in the form of a foot job or to tease with some tickling. Some people with foot fetishes enjoy seeing feet in socks, stockings, or heels, while others find the smell to be the most appealing part.

The only way you will truly know what you new partner is into when it comes to your feet is to ask him! It’s not really so much about what you can do for him, and more what are you willing to let him do to you. You mention that you don’t love feet, which is fine! It’s not your kink but maybe letting someone love your feet might actually feel good. If your feet aren’t your favorite part of your body, maybe a little foot worship might be a confidence boost. Whatever the outcome, exploring a new kink, even if it’s not yours, can be exciting. Of course, if you ever feel uncomfortable or what anything you’re doing to stop, be sure to clearly communicate that to your partner.

So go ahead! Explore, learn a little more about your partner’s fetish, and maybe learn a little about yourself in the process. Have fun!

 

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